Something that I feel needs to be addressed… it’s somewhat common knowledge, but not many people actually seem to understand it, so I’m going to lay it all out for you guys… 🙂
Women want men to do things. Pretty simple. These can be various things; we want flowers, we want to be told we’re beautiful, we want you to say you’re sorry when we’re upset, even if you don’t think you’re wrong, and on to the more specific and/or more complicated things. The problem is that we don’t want to tell men that we want these things. It kinda defeats the purpose for us. If we tell you we want you to say you’re sorry, then your “sorry” is meaningless to us. Most things are meaningless to us if we tell you we want you to do them.
The problem is that men frequently do not know that women want these things, and therefore do not do them, and then women get upset and men have absolutely no clue what is going on. Now, I don’t have the perfect solution to this, but I think it helps if everyone is aware of it and tries to at least take steps towards a mutual understanding.
Women – try to tell your man what you want. If you’re upset about something, that’s pretty much a no-brainer. Tell him you’re upset and what about and why. He’s not going to figure it out. If you want flowers, yes that’s a little more difficult, because if you tell him then it’s not as good, but maybe just try to do it discretely; drop hints, something. I don’t have the best answer for that kind of thing. Open to suggestions…
Men – women pretty much need constant proof of your love. I know it sounds silly to y’all, but it’s true. Some women don’t need it, but MOST do. Tell them you love them every day. Buy them flowers periodically (unless you know for sure they don’t like flowers). Say you’re sorry even when you don’t think you were wrong. Remember, women are, for the most part, emotional and frequently not rational. Sorry ladies, but it’s true. AND, if you make your woman crazy in love with you, you know what that leads to… 🙂
Basically, the biggest thing here is communication. And the biggest problem is women trying to make the men guess what they want. Don’t do it!! Just tell them!! You will both be happier. Serious.